Look... I skimmed this thread, to be honest, because I don't have time to wade through 13 pages of what people think is wrong with Aerie Peak. And I don't necessarily think that yet another long post from Kincaide is going to solve all the world's problems, but I think I owe it to my server to at least say something. If it means something to you guys, great. If it doesn't, that's okay too... you should each do what you think is right for yourselves.
The problem with Aerie Peak has never been that we had open recruitment. The problem is that, at some point, the "leaders" of Aerie Peak stopped politely enforcing the standards that Aerie Peak stood for. There are a lot of servers that advertise here on TI. There are two things that have always made Aerie Peak stand out: a high concentration of extremely talented players, and a high standard of behavior that was enforced alongside it.
See crappy people will come and go. And by crappy I'm not necessarily talking about playing skill, but about attitude. And what used to happen is that people would come to AP, they would be attracted by our high level of skill, and once they got there, they were exposed to the high standards of behavior we also enforced, and they would either be additionally attracted by that, or they would be repulsed and they would leave. That's how the community grew, but grew in the direction that -we- wanted because -we- were not afraid to stick to our standards.
Then a number of things changed, which changed that dynamic. One was that our bracket started becoming more and more infiltrated by 24s. Over time, F2Ps became so frustrated by constantly losing, that the standards of not playing alongside 24s slowly eroded. "They" were doing it, people would say, so it became more acceptable that "we" do it as well. What people forgot was that "they" ARE "we", just playing the other faction.
Which brings me to my second point. At some point in time, there became a cultural distinction between Aerie Peak Alliance and Aerie Peak Horde. This happened when I left the game for a long time... in fact I left the game BECAUSE this is what happened. It used to be that there was the utmost respect between our two factions, and we wouldn't think of the other as being "them", but rather as part of "us". It was in Alliance players' interest that things were going well on Horde, and vice versa. When that relationship became adversarial and people drew battle lines, instead of continuing to consider what was best for both sides and what was best for the server overall, I quit.
And that brings me to my third point. Something happened to all the true leaders of Aerie Peak around that time, where the enforcement of our standards just wasn't there anymore. Some people, like me, faded from the game. Some people conglomerated on one faction and started thinking of that faction separately from the whole server, and lost touch with maintaining the whole server's health. Some people found friends that they chose to identify with as a clique, and thought of that clique's interests over those of the server as a whole. At that point, we lost the critical mass of enforcement to where people who still cared about the server were not numerous enough to actually -do- anything about enforcement. We were overrun by "randoms" who didn't care--or in many cases, simply didn't know--about the standards we once held the server to.
I'm going to wrap this up because it's getting long and I don't want to get too annoyed thinking about all this. If you want to save this server and make it what it was, you have to do several things. One, you HAVE to start thinking of the whole server again, and not just your faction or your friends. The majority of the posts I saw as I flipped through this thread had the opposite attitude... "we're going to run off to another server and just play with a select group of friends" or "we're going to expect all of AP's talent to move to another server and start their hard-earned characters over again" etc. You know, you can do that if you want, but mark my words here because I'll stand by them: doing that is never going to result in another server becoming the great shining jewel that Aerie Peak once was.
Two, you have to start being willing to enforce the community standards that you want to live by. This task will be impossible if you haven't first done number one, because there simply won't be enough community-minded people online to shout down those that aren't following suit. Being willing to call people out, to /squelch them when they are talking crap about each other or generally being an ass, all these things take a critical mass of people who are backing you up, and they take a dedication to the server health that actually takes time and effort. I've often said that the community is more important to me than the game, and that's why I'm not as great a player as some of you. Back in the day, I might spend half my playing time just dealing with community issues, sending PMs to people about how to get better, why they shouldn't curse and rant in chat, why they need to bury the hatchet with some other person they're squabbling with... it takes work and dedication and if you're not willing to do it, nothing will change.
Third, and perhaps most important, if you want things to change, you yourself must be impeccable with your word and deed. You cannot expect to be a contributor to the health of Aerie Peak if you are lax with your own dedication to the standards, if you pick on people or are an ass to people because you disagree with their opinions, if you troll or flame or are an ass on the forums... If you play on Aerie Peak and you care about the server, you are an ambassador for your server in everything you do. Your focus determines your reality. Every single time someone sees your actions or reads your words, they believe that that is what they should come to expect from Aerie Peak as a whole. Why do you think I work so hard to be so thoughtful and fair and tempered in my posts? I'm not perfect of course, but I do always think that I am reflecting, and thus enforcing, my own view of what I want Aerie Peak--and in truth, the whole TI F2P community--to be.
Without a large group of like-minded people doing the same thing, we will never be able to define community standards. I've watched this hurt Aerie Peak's reputation, and lately I've watched it hurt the entire F2P bracket's reputation by the infighting and abhorrent rudeness I've seen on these boards. No one can talk about the loss of standards unless they themselves are living up to the standards they want to see enforced. It starts with each and every one of you. You can run off to your cliques and boutique servers if you want, and that is a totally valid choice if you think that's what's best for you... I'm not here to judge. But if you want--if anywhere in that heart of yours, you still desire--to have the kind of community we once had, YOU have to change and YOU have to make it happen.
That's all I've got.