I don't really care about winning or losing and I don't care about getting max HKs first or dying or not. If I did I'd just roll rogue and being a useless stealthing ***** all the time in mid. Maybe the odd sap and kill steal. Would be pretty easy to do if that was my goal.
Things I did work towards include being exalted with both WSG and AB factions, the latter to confirm that 20s couldn't get the tabard, which, unsurprisngly, they can't. I also took a week off during which time Outtlaw grinded hard and passed my HK count. Again, not that I was trying to be first. He's since stopped playing since he hit the 100k mark. He may well be back, but that happens a lot, people work hard, reach a goal, then lose interest.
Anyway, I will continue to stay or leave a game as I choose. Nothing anyone here, or in game, says will make me stay or leave.