Is there a standard since glacial stone is unobtainable? Just looking through I was going to get Smite's with Crusader, Night Reaver with Fiery, then Shadowfang with Lifestealing? Any other weapons/enchants I might want?
You could go with Night Reaver with fiery, smite's with crusader like you said, and then I mean deadskull shield is pretty hard to pass up, but if you plan to go mostly 2H, then you could opt for the Runic Darkblade instead of Deadskull, I personally would rather use Deadskull, but it's your call
In preperation for Phase 3 you could add:
Forester Axe of the Whale + 20 Spirit (Mirror Spirit Gear)
Night Watch Shortsword +15 Agility (FC Gear)
Other stuff to consider:
Shadowfang + Fiery (Sometimes you don't really need the sustain from LS but still want to go with a Shield)
Shadowfang + Crusader (A safe way to build up Cru, Smite's leaves you fragile)
Night Reaver + Lifestealing (Mathematically speaking the best enchant for 2-handed in 1v1's)
That said, the above things are highly optional and the weapons you got so far is what I'd call the right triangle to go for.