Falkor said:
but older than that people tend to get old and find things offensive. idk its late and im rambling, just thought you were suggesting all adults take no issue with swearing, etc.
at the end of the day (or the start of the next here) you did what you had to do, and it makes sense. he does seem like he wasnt going to fit in if vent, /ra, /gchat, etc were such thorns in his side. i dont think anyone reading this thread will be put off by what happened...in fact itll prolly open up their eyes to the guild a bit more. e.x. knowing that occasionally theres some cursing/joking between friends, lude jokes and the such...at least if they're opposed to that they wont have to go through the application process and waste money xfering. saves time for both them and you, so in a way this wasnt such a bad event from your end.
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Fine, you guys want to be immature in chat. Not my guild, not my problem. But don't go and try to describe yourself as a professional guild when the fact is you're extremely casual and laid back to the point where virtually anything goes. I'm sure part of the problem is that everyone overgears the content severely and there is really no need to take any of it seriously.
Here are the problems you've yet to address and actually NEED to adress. This isn't trolling, these are serious grievances against you.
1) Why would you ever kick anyone offline. Especially without an explanation. I don't know how you have led all these different guilds without realizing by now that doing that is the absolute worst way to handle it. Now if the person starts to make a scene in /gchat when you ask them to leave, boom kick. But kicking someone offline and then saying only that they're not working out is horseshit.
2) Why would you blatantly lie about so much stuff. Yes, I've been a complete asshole to you since my kick. And guess what, you've been just as bad.
You told me you kicked me for being bad. Well, guess what in my vent interview with Kronolas/Gitterdun/etc he specifacally stated that DPS DOES NOT MATTER. IT IS NOT A DPS RACE. He also said that there is a mage in your guild who does terrible DPS despite being in BiS gear and that you're fine with it, because you like him.
Kronolas also said during the raid in whisper to me that my DPS needed work, but that it was fine for now.
So there's a fair amount of doubletalk concerning performance. Lum comes in here talking shit telling me to get over 3k. Well, do we really want to go over every single member of your guild who can't do that self buffed? I mean c'mon, make up your mind about it FFS.
3) You accuse me of things that I flat out didn't do and that don't even make sense. Like getting on your vent and trying to get your guild members to quit. WTF? If you're really so secure in your position why resort to petty and silly lies?
4) Stop labeling yourself as professional and all that nonsense. Everyone who knows anything about 70 guilds knows that performance wise your guild is the best. Grats, you down severely nerfed content with WotLK gems, enchants, and specs. It's really not that big of a deal. The reason people come to your guild is for comradarie (yes, I mauled that word) and to avoid dealing with level 80s they end up PuGing.
They don't come to be part of a 100+ guild where only 25 people get to do BT and SWP each week where BiS items go for massive amounts of DKP. Yes, there are no alt runs and you are not allowed to PUG those raids.
So, why continue to misrepresent yourselves?
Why can't you come out and say what you are?
Hey, guys, we're Epoch, the top 70 raid guild in the US. We wreck BT and SWP weekly and are always looking for new blood. We're a fun loving guild so don't be a stuck up prick who can't handle a dirty joke. Apply at <snip>.
Is it really that hard?
And why do you get worked up so much when I'm here trying to say "Hey, if you don't want to hear about money shots and a bunch of elitists talk about how great they are, avoid Epoch." If you're cool with that, rock on.
Pretty freaking simple shit son.