I think she will like to have her friends and fans and supporters gather together and speak of the good things they remember about her and the fun, love and laughter you shared with her (I say "will" because she is still watching in spirit, even now, I believe Love communicates through all boundaries).
Also to help move through the difficult grieving process, so I would like to offer my services as an ordained minister (not saying I'm perfect, just ordained) to have an in-game memorial if that isn't already organized. There is no hurry, Typically the Memorial can take place anytime, even up to a year later, depending on the ability of family and friends to attend but I think it would be nice for her to see our gathering in her honor. So if there is one or someone else wants to organize it, please let me know when and where so I can at least attend in support.
I myself still struggle with deep depression and think often of what would happen and I know what would make me happy, watching in spirit, would be my friends getting together and sharing what I meant to them, to hear that I made a difference and laughing about the good times we had because I think that celebrating the good in life and each other is what keeps us alive after we're gone.
If this is inappropriate, I apologize, but if you have anything you would like to add about the good in her to you, that people who may not know her would like to hear, please celebrate her life by contributing to this thread so that even as her family will most likely visit this page, they will see the difference she made in our community, I FUCKEN LOVE YOU ALL!!!! Somfas