Nah Im pretty grounded in my views. I try not to let sentiment cloud judgement.
I myself have not had a kid, but I understand the emotional package it comes with, as I am very close to my sister who has just had a kid.
It goes without saying that had my mother not gotten an abortion during a rough period in her life, with someone she knew she didn't want to share a kid with, she may not have ever considered conceiving me further on and likely would have missed out on a chunk of her youth.
When a woman gets an abortion, it suddenly makes her a criminal and/or someone who despises having kids? No, it usually just means they aren't ready for a kid and the odds are stacked against them. For most, the ability to concieve stays relatively intact for a large portion of their early lives. Once she is in a comfortable financial and emotional situation, they are within their own decision to then start parenthood.
Abortion is sometimes used for avoiding parenthood, while other times it's simply a means of waiting until the time is right.
The bluebird may nest up to four broods annually. Would you criticize it for only nesting 3 times?