kratos
Xarbage
What about the people who are oblivious to the fact that they are a "hater". Can they be gay? Or, rather can they be gay and lose?
I suppose, you really could be gay with whatever you do, as long as it makes you feel gay. It depends on what you see as making you happy though.
And if it were say, a really good competitive game, I'm sure someone could be gay and lose.