fair enough medivh is looking like the best option atm i might transfer there, i've only got about 400k to get as many pieces as i can so i wanna try and get the most out of itEven on dead servers you will encounter 2-10 players with phat cash but anyway go to tradeskillmaster.com and keep an eye on the black markets of low pop / medium pop rp servers. Also don't forget that most of them are connected / share a bmah.
Personally I would select 5-10 servers of interest / that fit your criteria and then wait until the shoulders of your favorite set become available on one of those servers.realmpop shows me the lowest pop server but i want to find the lowest population realm group of connected servers so i have a better chance