As for the OP http://www.twinkinfo.com/forums/f148/hath%F4rs-5-4-f2p-comprehensive-rogue-pvp-guide-55753/ is quite a good guide
Just play mut, it's better than sub and spamming hemo outside of opener feels so damn mindless.
Monkey. Bandit is for hunts.
Don't think you have the option to be a monkey, but no need to panic, you can tame one. IF you are a hunter.monkey belts are for monkeys.