Kincaide
Legend
There's a saying that goes like this:
"Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people"
If everyone made an effort to stick to the conceptual topic at hand, not only would there be much less interpersonal strife, I actually think the conversations themselves will be more productive. As an example, when discussing (making up a random topic here) shot rotation for a frost mage in motion while being pursued by a melee, one person could say "my experience has been ABC" and another can say "I've tried ABC but also tried XYZ and I found it to make a difference in 123" and everyone gains some insight. But instead if the other person says "ABC is dumb (and by implication, the person who uses it is dumb) and XYZ is better (without qualifying the how)" then it's become personal, and not actually informative.
If you, sitting there, as an individual, whoever you are reading this, care about improving your own craft and improving the community, and lifting others up, then keep your focus on ideas and never talk about people. If, on the other hand, you care about being the best, holding back the community for your own benefit, and holding or pushing others down, then expect to be reported, ostracized, and/or rendered unwelcome and irrelevant.
Editing to add this correction: Never talk about people... EVEN IF OTHERS DO. Someone else violating the laws of good sportsmanship is no excuse for us to do the same.
"Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people"
If everyone made an effort to stick to the conceptual topic at hand, not only would there be much less interpersonal strife, I actually think the conversations themselves will be more productive. As an example, when discussing (making up a random topic here) shot rotation for a frost mage in motion while being pursued by a melee, one person could say "my experience has been ABC" and another can say "I've tried ABC but also tried XYZ and I found it to make a difference in 123" and everyone gains some insight. But instead if the other person says "ABC is dumb (and by implication, the person who uses it is dumb) and XYZ is better (without qualifying the how)" then it's become personal, and not actually informative.
If you, sitting there, as an individual, whoever you are reading this, care about improving your own craft and improving the community, and lifting others up, then keep your focus on ideas and never talk about people. If, on the other hand, you care about being the best, holding back the community for your own benefit, and holding or pushing others down, then expect to be reported, ostracized, and/or rendered unwelcome and irrelevant.
Editing to add this correction: Never talk about people... EVEN IF OTHERS DO. Someone else violating the laws of good sportsmanship is no excuse for us to do the same.
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