When gearing a 29 dps ret paladin, the order of the stats you want to focus on are ; agility > strength/stam> int.
Why? Because pure strength builds only significently effect you melee white swings. For every 100(50 strength) ap you have, your judgement spell only gains 16 damage. So stacking strength really only benefits white swings.
how ever, Because judgement of command is based on melee crit, agility benefits judgements greatly, aswell melee white swings.
For example, if a strength stacked paladin Crits for 35 more then an agility based paladin, but the agility based paladin crits 10 percent more of the time, who is really going to be more effective in pvp, a burst based scene? Who is really going to do more Dps?
Ideal gear list:
Helmet: Balanced, frostreaver crown. Dps focus: tusken helm.
Necklace: WSG necklace.
Shoulders: Polished shoulders of valour, NonBoA: Azure shoulderguards of the soldier.
Cape: Dps: parachute cloak enchanted 12 agility, Balanced: tigerstrike mantle enchanted with 12 dodge or 3 agility.
Chest: Raptor hunter tunic , enchanted with 6 stats. Nothing surpasses the benefits of this piece , for any physical dps class. Nothing.
Bracers: alot of options here.
Yorgen cuffs, Pugilist bracers, Barbaric bracers. My preference is barbaric bracers because they effectively add 6 stam, 4 agility, 4 strength. Only downside is the 8 ap doesn't get effected by kings. Your call. Enchant 9 stamina or 9 strength.
Gloves: Balanced:Razzeric's racing grips enchanted with 15 hit. Dps: Tiger hunter gloves enchanted with 15 hit.
Belt: AB belt
legs: Triprunner dungarees. 6 stamina, 18 agility, 3 strength. Most balanced pick right now.
Boots: AB boots. Enchant 7 stamina. 7 agility for pure dps glass cannon.
Ring: WSG ring.
Ring: Charged gear of the monkey, Charged gear of the bear, Charged gear of the tiger. Prefference here.
Trinket: Arena grand master.
Trinket: Goblin sapper charge, net o matic, pvp, Arena grand master, gnomish shrink ray.
Wep: Bloodied arcanite reaper hands down, enchant crusader.
NonBoA : corpse maker.
Use kings buff, not might.
Spec:
http://www.wowhead.com/?talent#sZZxfMtb Most balanced spec. Most effective some might say for general battlegrounds and arena.
Pure dps spec might look like
http://www.wowhead.com/?talent#sZZxfzt0h
Sorry, Don't know how to make item links, probably would be to lazy to anyways.